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Before purchasing a gift and presenting it to your father-in-law, check with your partner about family customs. Giving an expensive gift to an elder may not be appropriate. A simple act of kindness such as a phone call on his birthday or a surprise visit to rake leaves may be more suitable based on family tradition. According to Ben Klempner, family therapist and counselor, respectful boundaries can make or break your relationship with your father-in-law. Discuss your intentions with your spouse.

For the Guy Who Has Everything

If your father-in-law has everything he needs, or wants, choose a disposable gift. Fill a basket with snacks like fresh fruit, candy, crackers and dips. Find unusual foods that your father-in-law likes that cannot be bought locally. Import his favorite specialty wine. Enroll him in the beer of the month club. Pre-order his favorite cinnamon buns from a local bakery and personally deliver them on a Saturday morning. 1950s thought was that food was the way to a man's heart; perhaps it still is.